THE HERO/INE’S JOURNEY #4
“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project,
all your thoughts break their bonds; your mind transcends limitations,
your consciousness expands in every direction and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.” Patanjali
SEPARATION
A YEARNING FOR THE EXTRAORDINARY
“S/He who mounts a wild elephant goes where the wild elephant goes.”
R. Bournes
"A possibility is a hint from God - one must follow it." Kierkegaard
S/He who would be what he ought to be must stop being what s/he is.” Meister Eckhart
“In order to possess what you do not possess you must go by the way of
dispossession. In order to arrive at what you are not you must go
through the way in which you are not.” T.S. Elliot
“…put out to sea! Save your boat’s journeying soul and your own pilgrim soul,
cost what it may.” Dom Helder Camara
To do this we need to leave our 'Safe Harbors' and take our fragile boat out into an unknown ocean of our fears - physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual.
“The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” Joseph Campbell
The Hero's journey can arise from a yearning for the extraordinary but resistances need
to be overcome. Inner resistances arise as do outer pressures from love ones' or peers
that are concerned for you or maybe envious that they
do not have the courage to undertake what you are about to do.
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin
Usually one is given an object of power. In days of old it might have been a sword to
kill the dragon or wolf that was marauding the village - today - a soldier willing to die for a cause.
Now it is more likely to be an inspirational lecture, workshop, book or person who has induced you to embark on your own journey.
Classically one would enter sacred space (the Threshold) in order to separate.
Nature, wild places and wilderness are preferred environments since they offer
the possibility of being more numinous and luminous.
“The sun shines not on us but in us. The river flows not past but through us.” J Muir
Whatever the space chosen it is good to go into nature in one way or another for more
or less time to experience the metaphors, signs, messages and power animals that may
assist. In South Africa game viewers talk about
the "Big Five" (lion, leopard, elephant, rhino, buffalo)
but the metaphors usually come out of observing the smaller Beings
of Nature including the rocks, plants, trees and tiny animals.
“Believe one who knows; you will find something greater in the woods than in books. Trees and stones will teach you that which you can never learn from the masters.” St. Bernard de Clairvaux
“Ask of the wild animals and they shall teach you and the birds of the sky
shall tell it to you or speak to the earth for she shall guide you
and the fishes of the sea will declare it to you.” Job
If we immerse in nature we may experience the magic of the ordinary or even
"Wilderness Rapture" (equivalent to Maslow's Peak Experience) which can assist in the Threshold phase.
It is best to go on your own or be alone for the experience.
“You enter the forest at the darkest point, where there is no path.
Where there is a way or path, it is someone else's path.
You are not on your own path. If you follow someone else's way,
you are not going to realize your potential.”
Joseph Campbell
God wants you to be truly you!
Above is the classical hero's journey but we may just as well be forced on the path by some calamity. When this is the case its important to formulate the challenge into a these more formal three phases to better actualize and realize the power of the archetype.
If so, we are more likely to recognize the 'Grail' or 'Aha' that may come out of it.
For instance, a woman who embarks on a heroine's journey because of breast cancer and then, in Threshold, makes a promise that when she prevails she will assist other women going through the same.