KARMA #8
Never judge in a condemnatory way, never with disavowing and lack of love.
You must support emotionally without condoning.
JUDGEMENT
The judgment of the 99 neither validates nor invalidates the worth of the one.
The many and the few do not speak to value – only to popularity.
Popularity is not to be equated with value.
With social media, popularity is now evaluated by how many 'friends' one has and how many 'likes' one gets. However, often the subscriber has no idea who these 'friends' really are – good or bad. Some are getting depressed and are even suicidal about the opinions of others that; cannot even find the door to their own lives.
“When you talk to people do not "weigh," a soul that weighs suffers harm.” Talmud
When you no longer need to be right, the purity of your soul will shine through.
It is almost impossible not to judge. We are taught to distinguish right from wrong but we are not always right in our judgments.
Never judge another human until you have walked a mile in his moccasins.” Native American proverb
Actions arise from conditions. Do not judge then the former until the latter is well understood. If you have eaten what the judged one has eaten, and worn his clothes, and thought his thoughts, and felt both his joy and pain then you may say you have stood in his place but only briefly compared to the length of his stay. So still you may not know the past or present plights that plague him.
We would not be able to see fault in another unless it was already part of our own shadow.
Our judgments are frequently fraught with error and usually tainted with arrogance. Compassion and love are our salvation and joy.” Hillel
When we judge, and point fingers at another there are usually three fingers pointing back at us. We project our shadow onto others so that the ego can feel better about its little self.
“When you see a worthy person endeavor to emulate him, when you see an unworthy person then examine your inner self.” Confucius
Discernment and discrimination may help us to take our judgments to a more enlightened level. The Ancestors teach us to
sweeten our judgments.
Judge the action rather than the person.
We all do bad things and we all also have the potential for the divinity within us. Maybe we can temper our judgments with kinder words such as he is different, she is intense, he is extra ...
Gossip and especially slander, where there is malice, can be the toxic consequences of judgment. The Talmud adds that when you slander you metaphorically 'kill' three people; yourself and your Karma, the one (or ones) that are listening and whoever is getting character assassinated.
Sometimes the judgments we make that cause harm have onerous consequences that we cannot even imagine. The rules of accountability beyond the veil are much more severe than we may realize.
“Judge not that you not be judged, for what measure you judge, you will be judged,
and for what measure you mete, it will be measured to you again.” Matthew
“Do not covet your neighbor or anything that belongs to your neighbor...”
...With what measure you mete will be measured unto those again, will apply to those who have an ever increasing degree of covetousness and ...
The Evil Eye
The Evil Tongue
The Evil Inclination
Take care not to give scandal nor to do harm.
Witchcraft and Sorcery arise from a heart of envy and are the ultimate evil rendered by covetousness. The witch and the sorcerer have all three of these venomous attributes as do some others not necessarily in these professions but often in positions of power.
When we judge vindictively we may gossip, slander and character assassinate or covet what someone else has.
Covetousness may lead one to want what someone else has, or prevent them from getting what they want, or even destroying what they already have.
Greed arises out of Covetousness and vice versa.
Greed at its worst craves Power and ...
"Greed is not stilled with money any more that thirst is by salt water." Ksemendra
Greed seeks Fame and even Infamy.
Fame puts oneself above others, even to the extent of enjoying Infamy.
"Power corrupts and complete power corrupts completely."
Lord Acton
When we look at the autocratic leaders that have imposed themselves on the world's order and that we many have mistakenly voted for, many are disobeying three of the Ten Commandments but may claim they are in line with God's will.
You shall not take My Name in vain.
You shall not bear false witness against you neighbor (and certainly not a whole nation.)
and
You shall not covet.
Concerning the three deadly sins of Karma; self-Cherishing, Desirous Attachment and Judgment - the latter is the most challenging.
"See yourself in others, then whom can you hurt, what harm can you do." Osho Dammapada